Autumn Workshops with Madam C

Join me this Autumn for educational opportunities that can enhance your play, dynamic, outlook, and skill sets.


9/24 "Making The Time: Work/Life Balance in an M/s Relationship" @ 1 PM for MAsT Williamsburg

  • Being realistic about M/s dynamics
  • Evaluating time, quality time, and personal time
  • Total Power Exchange and work
  • Self care, self-advocacy, and selfishness- how they are different


10/10 "Why We Play: BDSM Scenes from Start to Finish"  ($5) 6:30 PM -8:30 PM at Fallout

  • Identifying our individual needs in a scene
  • Self advocacy and scene negotiation
  • How to stop comparing our play to others'
  • Planning and ritualizing our play from both sides
  • BDSM Headspace, what it is, how to get it, and how to maintain it throughout the scene
  • Successful pre-care and aftercare strategies
  • Why feedback is important
  • Printed workbook plus bonus digital resources


11/2 "Interrogation Play"  (Free) 6:45 PM -8:30 PM at Fallout

  • Negotiation
  • Props for interrogation play
  • Setting the scene
  • Coercive techniques
  • Inducing anxiety & fight or flight
  • Scene flow
  • Safe words / signals
  • Succesful pre-care and aftercare strategies


11/7 "The Art of Femdom: The Power of the Female Top/Domme/Sadist"  (Free) 6:30PM -8:30 PM at Fallout

  • The history of female dominants
  • How we view powerful women in society today
  • Why you don't have to be dominant to be in control
  • Making your domination your own
  • IFeminism
  • Power exchange & female-led relationships
  • Questions about being a female top, resources, support, and more!



12/2 "Traditional & Modern Service Values for the Mindful Spirit" co-lead with a special guest ($5+ Donation to The National MS Society) 1 PM to 5 PM at a private location

  • An overview of traditional beverage service (incl. tea, coffee, wine, beer, and spirits)
  • Creating rituals within our power dynamics
  • Bringing mindfulness to service
  • Online resources
  • Modern service and "making it your own"
  • Service myths and why service isn't one sided


12/2  "Gaining Confidence to Top When You Aren't a Top" ($5+ Donation to The National MS Society6PM to 8:20 PM at a private location

  • Why it is okay to be curious about topping
  • Why tops sometimes want to be bottoms
  • Identifying areas of confidence within your preferred BDSM role
  • Identifying areas of confidence within your vanilla life
  • How to focus on learning new skills
  • Exercises to keep your confidence growing
  • Digital resources